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New skool ignorance [Updated]

New Skool

I don't even know where to begin.

First of all, this guy (with a Grindr profile photo of some shrubbery!) is 20 years-old! I've been HIV+ since before he was born! I'm not about to be schooled in “proper” HIV+ sex practices by him. Please.

Secondly, Grindr really isn’t the place for this sort of discussion unless we were planning to hook up which we weren’t. His initial message to me arrived out of nowhere. I don’t initiate contact with youngsters, especially anonymous ones.

Finally, my sex life is no one’s business except mine and those I choose to share it with, even though this blog might indicate otherwise. The same goes for my T-Cell count and Viral Load, so STFU, Mary, unless you were invited which you weren’t.

It would be nice if this kind of “sex shaming” would  end in the age of PrEP and HAART. I guess there will always be ignorant young people.

FYI: The risk is essentially eliminated, not “huge.”

I guess my problem with this whole episode is not that he’s ignorant of the facts. Most people are, really. It’s that he is so loud about his ignorance and he’s decided to spread it around. I had hoped that, in the five years when I was off the market, things had changed. I guess not.

UPDATE: I sent a link to this blog post to Mr. Shrubbery. He blocked me, of course.

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